I’m honestly really anxious about asking this, but…. is it normal to not enjoy, ah…. putting things inside me (toys, etc). Like. It’s not painful or BAD, and I’m all good on the lubrication front, it just doesn’t feel like anything special to me… I usually just get off by playing with my clit, but I was talking to a few friends the other day and I started feeling bad about not being really into it like they are…

Alright alright alright…. BABE, please don’t you EVER feel like you’re any different, or weird, or anything remotely bad because you don’t enjoy the same things as everyone does. Do you like the same food, enjoy the same music, read the same books, support the same sport teams as your friends? I suppose you don’t….? well, sex is just the same. We don’t always enjoy the same things, and thank god for this because life would be a complete bore if we did.

It’s okay not to enjoy penetration, or at least, not to get off with it.
Some women get off from vaginal stimulation, others prefer clitoral stimulation. You’re one of the latest. It doesn’t mean sex won’t be good, it just means you’re more sensitive from the clit and you just have to play with it to get off.

Don’t stress that out. You’re 100% okay and don’t let anyone make you think otherwise. ♥