I’m a virgin, and I’m ready to finally have sex with my boyfriend. He’s had 7 sexual partners and it kind of bothers me because I wasn’t expecting him to have that many. Idk what to do or how I should feel about this.

Hi Darling,
We all come with our past & bagages. You’ll come accross partners who have lots of experiences, some without any, and that’s just life really. Just because he had 7 partners doesn’t mean it’ll make any difference on “your” first time. Thinking about his past partners will only stress you out and make you nervous. Don’t think about it, at all. This isn’t a competition, he doesn’t have any expectation, you don’t have to be the best or get on any level to make it a pleasant experience for him. Just leave the past in the past and embrace the moment as it comes, I’m sure it won’t make any difference when you have sex together for the first time. You can’t judge someone for having “that many” ex partners just like he can’t judge you for being a virgin. When you’ll become one together, I can promise you you’ll be on the same level ♥ relax, enjoy…