i was casually seeing someone for a while. the sex was amazing, he made me feel beautiful. but then he dropped me and im in fucking pieces. he doesnt care about how hes left me feel. its been months and im still crushed. how do i make it stop? ?

Hi Darling,
The worst kind of break-up is when someone suddenly loses interest for no reason. There’s no explanation, it just happens. One day some people are able to move on and crush someone’s expectations of what their relationship is/was and just don’t care about it. I know how you feel, and I know you probably think there’s something wrong with you because of the brutality of this break-up, but you have done nothing wrong, trust me. You’re beautiful, you’re amazing and you’ll find someone else eventually. It’s okay to feel sad, to feel destroyed and to feel like you won’t ever love again, but you will. Maybe not tomorrow or next month but you will. Just keep your mind occupied, get busy, do things, try new hobbies, get out here, just move on with your life and get distracted. Sure there will be nights where you’ll cry yourself to sleep and days when you won’t feel like going out or do anything but mourn that relationship and thats okay, you’re allowed to cry and be upset about it for as long as you need to. But I can promise you that if you get rid of everything that ever reminds you of that guy, and if you just live your life, take baby steps and eventually learn how to be happy again, soon enough you won’t even remember his name. You’ll start to forget him, day by day, with every step towards a better life. Just live and allow yourself some alone time when it gets too much. Nobody said you had to get over it by tomorrow. Please remember you’re beautiful and someone will be lucky to have you someday ♥