I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly three years. He is the only guy I have ever had sex with. I still have a hard time orgasming when we have sexual intercourse. I seem to only orgasm when it involves the clit. Do you know how I can orgasm vaginally?

Hi Darling,
Most girls can only orgasm when their clit is being stimulated, so you’re pretty much normal, don’t worry about that. The best way to reach climax without it though is to locate your g-spot (that’s your partner job) and hit it the right way. You can practice while fingering by curving your finger(s) in some kind of “come here” motion until you feel that spongey area – that’ll be your g-spot. This being said, some women are absolutely unable to orgam without touching their clit so don’t worry too much if you can’t, it’s no big deal as long as your special button works fine.

Here’s a picture so you can practice by yourself and teach your boyfriend how to get you there:

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